Writing
The Bull and the Matador
Why self-conflict is often viewed as a fight between our inner matador against our inner bull – and how to play a different game altogether.
Doer vs Leader: The Pickle of Progress
Doers love immediate action, progress and praise. But becoming a leader requires a very different set of behaviors. What got you here, won't get you there.
Grayscale Thinking for a Life in Color
We tend to see the world in black and white. But there's another mindset that's more open and suited to dealing with uncertainty, complexity and change. It's called grayscale thinking.
The Art of Conditionlessness
Goals can be useful. But they can also get in the way of what you actually want.What's a more effective approach? The timeless art of conditionlessness.
Finding Your Frontier
Adventure and thrills seem rare and hard to find. But they can always be discovered – if you know where to look, that is.
The Innovator’s Guilt
Being a contrarian and innovating leads to progress. But that progress has a price: the guilt of leaving the group behind.
Unlearning to Learn
To move forward, you have two choices. You can learn something new. Or you can unlearn what's keeping you stuck.
Fans, Players and Professionals
Inspiration is easy. Real growth and transformation? That’s a different ball game altogether.
The Next Level of You
You’re driven. You have an impact. And you’re liked by everyone you know. These qualities have served you well. But, in their current form, they’re also keeping you stuck exactly where you are. Learn about what it takes to step up to the next level of you.
If You're Not Selling, You're Not Leading
Leadership is influence, and influence is sales. So how well do you know your "customers'" needs? And are you ready to sell yourself?
The Toll Booth Collector
If you want to make a change, don't expect a free ride. There’s always a price to pay. But will you let that stop you?
Keep Your Options Closed
We tell ourselves to keeping our options open, so that one day we'll have the freedom to do what we want. Unfortunately, for many of us that day never comes. How to avoid that fate? Start closing your options.
The Dark Side of Drive
Drive can lead to change, impact and accomplishment. But if it's let loose, drive can also lead to mania, burnout and paralysis. Only by managing drive can it be sustained for the long haul.
You Are What You Attend To
Forget about time management. It what's you actually do with your time that matters—and that's your attention.
The Questions We Ask
Want to change? Stop looking for answers. Start following questions instead.
Choose Your Right Arena
The one question to ask yourself to start playing the game—and living the life—you want